Changing old patterns
When my last toxic relationship ended, I didn’t go home. I stayed at a friend’s house because I simply couldn’t face being alone. That night, I lay in bed sobbing. Not crying in the way people often imagine after a breakup, but the kind of grief that feels like it’s tearing through your body. I …
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Understanding the difference — and how it shapes relationships affected by trauma, addiction, and codependency When you care deeply about someone who’s struggling — whether with addiction, trauma, or emotional instability — it’s natural to want to help. But sometimes, feeling sorry for someone can become tangled up with romantic or emotional attachment. Many people …
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The Rescuer’s Heart Many of us who care deeply have a rescuer inside us. We see pain in others and want to make it better. We spot potential, we believe in people, and we feel a powerful urge to help them become who we know they can be. But sometimes, that beautiful instinct crosses into …
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