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Posted on July 7, 2026

What If They’re Not Choosing the Person, but the Pattern?

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It can be one of the hardest things to understand. You watch someone choose a partner over their children. You see a friend stay with someone who lies, cheats or betrays them, while pushing away the very people trying to help. From the outside, the choices can seem impossible to comprehend. People often ask, “Why …

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