Helping, Rescuing, or Enabling? Understanding the Difference

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Have you ever found yourself constantly stepping in to solve someone else’s problems? Perhaps you lend money they never repay, make excuses for their behaviour, or put your own needs on hold to keep them afloat. If so, you’re not alone. Many people who struggle with codependency genuinely believe they’re being caring and supportive. But …

Adult Children Of Addicts or Codependents – The Laundry List

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  If you grew up in a home with a parent who misused alcohol, drugs, or who suffered from codependency themselves, you’re probably familiar with the feeling of never knowing what to expect from one day to the next. When one or both parents struggle with addiction, the home environment is unpredictable. Arguments, inconsistency, unreliability, …