Changing old patterns
A common question I get asked is: “Do you offer couples therapy?” The answer is no. Not because I don’t believe couples therapy can be helpful—it absolutely can. When both people are committed to taking responsibility, communicating openly, and working towards change, it can transform a relationship. But over the years, I’ve noticed something. Many …
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“I promised myself I’d never date someone like my ex again.” It’s something I hear from clients all the time. Yet months later, they’re sitting in my therapy room describing someone new… and the story sounds painfully familiar. Maybe the new partner isn’t exactly the same person, but the emotional experience is. They’re emotionally unavailable. …
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