Attachment vs. Attunement: Why the Difference Matters in Relationships

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When it comes to healing, growing, or simply understanding ourselves and our relationships better, two words often come up in therapy: attachment and attunement. They sound similar—and they’re deeply connected—but they’re not the same. Knowing the difference can give you insight into why some relationships feel safe and fulfilling, while others might feel confusing, distant, …

Do You Keep Attracting Emotionally Unavailable Partners?

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  An emotionally unavailable person is typically seen as someone who has a fear or block to sharing their emotions, and feelings. They delay making plans, don’t really want a label to the relationship, can’t commit, are inconsistent, they lead you on, or worse. They can be emotionally abusing you (gaslighting, stonewalling, lying). They likely …